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Attempt to Save the Date
My adult daughter is attractive and bright, but she makes terrible choices in men. There have been many opportunities for me to set her up with quality men, but she never lets...
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He’s Not the Boss at Home
My husband is a kind person — or so I’ve always thought — but when he’s frustrated, he says things that are rude, bossy and demeaning. He has a stressful job and I thi...
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In a Love Triangle With Fido
My boyfriend is not a very affectionate person. I learned to be OK with it. But we recently got a dog together and he is so cuddly with it, using baby talk and wanting to cudd...
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Think Outside of That Box
I have a box of mementos in my closet. Recently, I found the box disturbed, and I’m pretty sure it was by my 12-year-old daughter. There are some photos in there I had taken...
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Out-of-Control Office Reply
Can you explain to me why a grown woman (my boss) would be such a drama queen about everything? If she has a bad day, everyone has to have a bad day. If she has to take a sick...
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Perfect Timing Required
How do you tell your girlfriend that she needs to go on medication for PMS? Believe me, she needs to. Her personality really changes a few days out of the month, and yes, I’...
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‘It’ Isn’t the Problem Here
I’ve been Ms. Initiator for years, scheduling girls’ nights out, playdates and brunches. Hardly anyone reciprocates. If I want to chat with someone at work, I have to go t...
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An Addiction in the Family
My sister is a drug addict. She was hospitalized for heroin withdrawal, quickly signed herself out of rehab and recently had a blood clot in her lung. She doesn’t seem to re...
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Avoiding a Place in Line
I’m wondering whether to move in with my boyfriend. We’re in our early 30s and have been together for just over a year. I don’t have any moral objections, and it could b...
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Put the Texts Into Context
I recently dated a guy I met online. He seemed smart, cute and normal! After a few dates, I wasn’t feeling it anymore, and so I didn’t return his calls. Since then, he’s...
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Work It Out Before You Quit
I’m lost in terms of my career and feel trapped because I’m married with kids. I’ve never liked my job, and being in this field was supposed to be temporary. But eight y...
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Take a Look in Your Mirror
My boyfriend is a metrosexual. We always joked about the fact that he used more hair products than me, etc. Lately he seems to care so much about his appearance that it’s ge...
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Give Them Another Chance
I’m about to take my husband back after a six-month separation brought about by the fact that he cheated on me for several years. I was certain that I wanted a divorce, but ...
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Avoid Making Poor Choices
My husband and I are well-off compared to our friends. We’ve worked hard and made career choices that have gotten us where we are. Many of our friends, while hard workers, h...
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Prince Charming’s Alarming
I’m worried about my friend’s new relationship. The guy is very charming and good-looking, but I just don’t think he treats her well. I’ve heard him make fun of her jo...







