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Field of Dreams Needs a Ref
My girlfriend has decided to try to enter my field. Our two fields have always been related, but she seems to think that she should be able to get a job similar to mine, at my...
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Stop the Flirt, or Get Hurt
I think my sister’s boyfriend has feelings for me. I wouldn’t date him because that’s a line I wouldn’t cross, and I’m just coming out of a divorce and not in a plac...
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Don’t Need a Detective to Solve This
I have spent my adult life dating the world’s most emotionally unavailable men. Now that I’m 28 and newly single (again), I wonder if I’m just cursed? Some friends and f...
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Not Meant to Go the Distance
I moved just as I was developing a new friendship. I’d like to keep this friend (and not let it turn into just a Facebook thing), but I’m having difficulty. We had both ex...
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What Is He Waiting For?
I’ve found a guy who treats me decently that I’m attracted to, but he’s taking things SUPER slow. We only see each other once a week. After three months, I haven’t met...
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Desire to Fix the Problem
We’ve been married six years, together for 11, and he would have sex all the time if he could, but I never want to. My friends are shocked when I tell them that we haven’t...
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Keeping Up With Everybody
Why can’t I stop comparing myself to everybody else? I was always self-confident in high school and even college. But now that I am approaching my 30s and engaged, it’s li...
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The Wrong Baby Formula
My mother-in-law is constantly giving us stuff for our baby girl, and it’s junk that we’re not interested in. We’ve done research and have specific views about what she ...
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Is It Time to Branch Off?
I’ve been with my fiance for four years. When I first met his parents, I made a bad impression because I was nervous. Four years later, I feel like his mother is still tryin...
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Your Plus One Is a Negative
My husband is a cranky person. I’ve dealt with it for years — it doesn’t bother me. I’ve recently realized that it really bothers some of my friends. We’re getting i...
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I Want a Friend, Not a Twin
A longtime friend of mine seems to be copying everything I do. At first I was flattered when she bought some clothes similar to mine, some of the same furniture, started using...
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Sick of Husband Being Sick
My husband doesn’t take good care of his health, so he’s always getting sick. And he is such a baby when he is sick. I used to be sympathetic, but now I’m just annoyed. ...
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Too Old for Growing Pains?
I’m a 37-year-old woman who still doesn’t feel comfortable in her own skin. I don’t feel grown-up yet, and I keep wondering when it will happen. I think being single doe...
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Don’t Put This Ring On It
I recently got engaged to a fantastic guy, and I couldn’t be happier. Which is why I feel terrible that I really don’t like my engagement ring, like REALLY don’t like it...
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The Age of Irritants
Ever since my husband and I met 18 years ago, we’ve joked about how I’m older than him (by three years). Now that I’m approaching 50, this joking gets to me. I know it s...







